The Importance Of Avoiding Conflict

There are times when you get into a situation that you don’t wanna be involved in because of it being a hostile situation so if you keep in mind and remember the importance of avoiding conflict, you can get yourself out of those situations you don’t wanna be a part of. Conflict can happen in many different ways at any place and any time plus even in stressful situations when tempers get short conflict can also happen as well. Sometimes a conflict between two or more people can become physically violent causing serious injury or cost someone their life.

The importance of avoiding conflict is very important if you want to be able to walk away from any situation that may be getting violent and you don’t wanna be a part of it. Conflicts happen in many places from fast food places to food stores because someone could cut in front of someone because they don’t wanna wait their turn and when that other person speaks up and says to that person they need to wait their turn that person may get upset and a hostile argument can break out between the two or group of people causing them to be picked up by the police because there are many places of business that don’t tolerate this kind of behavior and these people can end up being banned from that place because of their violent ways.   Walking away is the best thing to do in order to avoid conflict of any kind.

Conflict can also happen in the workplace and you may have a co-worker that causes problems and you just don’t get along with. There are three things that you can do you can choose to make the wrong choice and get into a heated fight with this person causing you both to lose your job or talk out the problem also if you try talking it out and that co-worker is still being hostile towards you it’s best to speak with your supervisor and tell him or her the problem that you are having with that other person that you are working with. They will observe the situation and will have a talk with that person giving them a warning and if the problem continues that person will be let go of their job.

Sometimes conflict can happen in the family between a married couple or other family members and sadly a conflict can get so bad in a family that some family members stop talking to each other. There have been a few times in our family that there were some heated arguments but we did not hold grudges, we forgave and moved on because forgiving each other is what family does.  Conflicts can also happen between friends which can sadly end the friendship but if they forgive and forget they can remain friends and move past that ugly situation.  We all face conflict from time to time and it’s up to us to know the importance of walking away from any type of conflict.


Don’t Take It Personal



Sometimes someone that you know or may not know could be having one of them days and may be short with you but no matter how it comes across don’t take it personal. When you take it personal and get angry you are filling yourself with unhealthy and negative vibes that can also cause very serious health issues as well. That person that snapped at you may be going through some hard times and may not mean to snap so it’s best to not take it personal and be as patient as you can be. When you learn to not take things personal you will give yourself the piece in life.

Some that take things personal will hold a grudge towards that person and no matter how many times that person apologizes they still won’t forgive them and that is just plain silly. It’s best to forgive, forget and move on because we need to all remember don’t take it personal and just keep on living life in a happy and healthy way. Life is just way too short to take things personal and to hold grudges towards others because if you hold grudges towards that person for too long it may be too late to reconcile cause they will be passed on and it’s a regret that you will live with.

This is something that I need to work on myself because I have a habit of taking things personal when someone snaps and I should not be doing that. So I am working on ways to not take things personal and just let it roll off my shoulders because anger does not do any good. The thing to keep in mind is that it’s best to not let things get the best of us when someone snaps and get impatient with us plus it’s best to just give people the benefit of the doubt because that person you know is mostly a down to earth person and you have caught them on a bad day.  The more you let things build up and upset you by taking things personal, the more negativity and health problems that you will face.

One of the things that you can do to change and not take things personal is by meditating every single morning and filling your mind with positive thoughts. You can also watch videos online to learn about not taking things personal and there are also professionals, family, and friends that you can talk with asking for advice on how to stop taking things personally. You can also find support groups and be able to speak with anyone at any time when you have that moment of weakness and feel anger building up after someone jumps all over you. They will let you know that they are there for you and will give you the positive vibes that you will need to help you keep the inner peace that you need. No matter what people say to you or do, don’t take it personal because life is just way too short to miss out on.

It Does Not Happen By Magic



Some people that start a home-based or any type of business expect results right away but we all need to put in the work because it does not happen by magic. It takes work and dedication to get to where you want to be at and have the success that you are searching for otherwise if you think it’s gonna happen by magic you are living in a fantasy world. You need to be serious and not play games when it comes to having the success of any kind that you want. It will take time but as long as you are being consistent and following through you will make it to the top.

There are some that will take it seriously and do what is needed to get to the successful world and some will just sit around and hope for a million dollars to instantly appear in their bank accounts but we all gotta face the facts, it does not happen by magic. If you want to get to where you want in life, not be tied down to a job, and have the money to do the things you wanna do plus freedom, you gotta put in the work and you need to put in the time to do it. So let’s say that you still have a job and you work 9 to 5 Monday through Friday and you are up early at 6:00 am each day and that can give you time to do a little online work in the mornings while having breakfast before going to work. Then when you get home in the evening do some more work online before or after dinner and then have the weekends to fully focus on it. Soon before you know it you will be where you want to be at and be able to quit your job. When you know that it does not happen by magic you are gonna take the actions that are needed to make it.

Some may think when they sign up for a business or make a video and slap it online, they think money is gonna come their way but it takes a lot more work to make that happen. When you join a business that’s online or offline you need to follow directions every step of the way and keep in mind that success does not happen by snapping your fingers, you gotta follow each step if you want the dream to become real. Plus you will also need to make some sacrifices and realize that you are not gonna have time to always watch TV, listen to music, etc, because you are gonna be busy working to make your life better. Once you have the success and the money is coming in on a regular basis then you won’t have to do be on the computer that long. Many that are now successful who work online only have to be doing their online work a few hours a day or less then have the whole day to do whatever they want to do. So always keep in mind that it does not happen by magic and you need to take the actions to have success in life.


Making And Sticking To A Schedule


In Order to stay on top of your daily routine. making and sticking to a schedule is a very important key role to have in your life. When you are planning your schedule you need to first figure out how much time you will need to do every task throughout the day and some task s you may do on a daily basis or your schedule can change from day to day. Let’s say that you are either on your day off, vacation or you work from home and have things to do during the day and you wake up at the same time every single day. For example, 6:00 AM-6:30 Am wake up and meditate, 6:30,7:00 Am, breakfast, 7:00 Am,9:00 Am online work, 9:00 am -9:30 Am workout and other things as well.

Making and sticking to a schedule shows the self-discipline that you will have to be consistent and follow though o what you need to do every single day and if you are someone that runs a business you will also need to make a schedule for your employees to follow daily and sometimes you may need to change the schedule from time to time. It’s very important to stick to a schedule and stay on top of it otherwise if you don’t stay on top of it, you can throw yourself off and if you are not consistent on following your schedule that can also show a lack of self-discipline.

If you are working a job you will also have a schedule that is made for you for the week that you will need to follow and depending on when it’s posted weekly or bi-weekly, you will need to check it because it can change from time to time and let’s say that you are in charge of an event where different activities are scheduled you will also need to make sure every acivity is scheduled accordingly. Also, if you make a schedule that you need to follow on the go, you can also use the notepad on your smartphone plus there are also apps that you can also download and easy make and keep track of your schedule. When you make and stick to a schedule that will also show the importance of being efficient and that it’s important for you to stick with that schedule every day and change when needed to do so.

On a schedule, you may have a short amount of time to complete each task and will need to get each task done as quickly as possible because other things on your schedule will need to be started and finished up by a certain time. So let’s say that you are doing a workout around 5:00 Pm and you are gonna meet family and friends for dinner at a restaurant at 7:00 pm but the restaurant is a half hour drive from where you live. You would need to be done with your workout by 5:30 or before 6:00, shower, get ready and leave your place by 6:30 to make it to the restaurant on time. When you make and stick to a schedule every day,  it will make your routine stay on track in everything you do.



















Success Starts With A Positive Attitude



There any many ways to have great success in this world but we all know that success starts with a positive attitude. That positive can-do attitude is what is going to keep us focused on what we want to accomplish in our lives because a positive attitude will lead us to the happiness that we want to have. When you say to yourself that you can do it and anything is possible, that’s the start of a great attitude that is going to push you to do better every day.

Those that have a negative attitude are not going to be successful because they will only fill themselves with negative vibes and will waste time on things that will hold them back.  This type of negative thinking is poison for your thoughts because it’s toxic to your mind so if you want to avoid these toxins of negativity you gotta keep in mind that success starts with a positive attitude. The better the attitude that you have the greater that your success will turn out to be and no matter what others may say or think don’t let any of their negativity ruin the success that you gain.

There are many famous people that have a lot of success and yes, in the beginning, many of them had rejections here and there but they never gave up because they knew that as long as they had that positive attitude and kept on going, they were going to be successful. Now they have the success because they believed in their visions and knew that they could do it. Seeing the vision of your success and taking the actions shows that your attitude is 100 percent possible and you are willing to do what needs to be done. When you succeed, it’s gonna drive you to do a whole lot more.

When people that are successful wake-up every day with a great outlook they know that anything is possible when they put their minds to it. There are those that would give up after one or two times because they kept having failures and that was showing a negative vibe but some can also help them regain their confidence and positive attitude. In order to keep that positive attitude for the success that you wanna have you gotta wake up every single day and tell yourself, I can do anything and say that I’m possible. That will kick start your day with so many positive vibes and the happiness that you will need to be successful. When your attitude is positive your success will soon be real.

With your success or failures, it’s gonna depend on how negative or positive your attitude is and will also depend if you are taken the proper actions or just sitting and hoping for success to happen. We all need to believe in ourselves and be positive to get to where we want to be in life. When you want to get anywhere in your carer, remember that success starts with a great and positive attitude.

Getting The Best Deals



Getting the best deals can really come in handy when you wanna shop for foods and other items without draining your wallet or bank account. There are many reasons why many of us like to save money on items from being on a budget to also be wise of what we are spending on money on and sometimes we can get the 2 for one deals that can really save us a lot of cash. You can also get great deals by using coupons or finding a store that’s having a sale or shop at your local store because they always have low prices where you know that you are going to get great deals every single day. The best deals that you get can also help you put extra money away and you can save a lot of it.

Getting the best deals comes in handy when you are feeding your family and wanna save money on your favorite food items and other household items. You and your family may be in the mood for pizza one night but you don’t wanna go crazy and spend a lot of money so you go online to find the best pizza places with the best deals. You come across a great deal like 2 large pizzas with the works, soda, wings, breadsticks, and choice of deserts for only $20.00  and that can really save you a lot of money plus you may have some extras left over for lunch or dinner the next day. Also, you can buy a few frozen pizzas at your local food store and can really save a whole lot more on top of that.

The best deals can also come in hand when it comes to the Holiday season and the days where you can really save money is on Black Friday or Cyber Monday. Most places that are open on Thanksgiving day will start their sales on Thanksgiving night where people can get half off deals on TV’s, video games systems, and other amazing deals but, if you don’t wanna fight the crowds, you can always do Cyber Monday, and get the best deals without fighting the crowds at the store. Online on Cyber Monday, you may also get a great deal on a game system, PC, or anything else that may include an extra, controller, game or you may also have a chance of getting a rebate on them as well.

You can also get great deals at your favorite restaurants when you are going out for dinner and many places have great deals where you can order off a part of the menu that has a 2 for one deal that gives you a choice or entree, desert, appetizer and make also include a soup and salad so if it’s just you and your spouse, you can really save money on your meal. You can also get great deals on airline tickets, Hotels, car rentals, and much more. The more great deals that you can get, the more money that you can save. Getting the best deals is a true money saver for all.

Making The Right Choices


There are some choices that we make in our lives that may or may not be good but when we are making the right choices we are on the path that we need to be on. You may come across some people who may seem like great people and just wanna get to know you but one day you can all be out someplace and they want to involve you in some type of illegal activity such as selling drugs, shoplifting or cause physical harm to others. You can make the wrong choice by staying with these people that cause trouble or make the right choice by staying away and avoiding these types of people who are up to no good. Plus another right move to make would to report them to the police.

Making the right choices is what teaches us to grow into more wiser people and know what choices to make and which ones to avoid. There are some that are way overweight because they didn’t take care of themselves and ate bad foods and did not stay active. They can either keep making bad choices and risk many health problems or t a day can come when they decide to make the right choices and start to work out, eat healthily, eat less than before they know it they will be slimmed down, happier, healthier, full of energy and will simply live a fuller and longer lifestyle.  They may either enjoy certain foods in moderation or they may decide to cut them out completely and only eat healthily. When you make the choices that are right for you and stick to them, you are sticking to a promise for yourself.

You also may be shopping at a food store where it’s very busy and it’s short staffed but you know you need food items and other things for your home plus when you go to check out you see that the lines are long and are going to be waiting a while. Deep down inside you wanna yell and complain but you know it’s just best to be patient because everyone in there that’s working is doing the best that they can to get customers checked out. When you finally get to the register the cashier will smile, greet you and also will apologize about the wait and explain that they are short staffed. Although you may have not been happy with the long wait you are still making the right choice and being patient and understanding plus they also may offer you a coupon or half off on your purchae on your next visit.

We may face many type of temptations in our lives that we may give into and it may be a choice that we may regret and could land us in trouble. You may be tempted to sneak out of work early because you wanna beat the traffic but you know if you leave early without permission you may have a risk of losing your job. So you decide to talk with your boss ahead of time and ask if you can leave a little early to beat the traffic or you just wait until it’s time to go home and clock out at the proper time. When you are making the right choices, that’s showing very true wisdom.


Blocking Out Negative Thoughts


When you are blocking out negative thoughts, you are refusing to let anything that’s negative to stand in your way because you are showing that you have no time for negativity. When you have a dream that you are passionate about but some still try to put you down and say negative things like you will never make it, you are going to block them out by blocking the thoughts of negativity and keep them positive vibes. But there are those who still carry that negative energy and just give up too quickly on their dreams because of a negative attitude and no confidence.

Blocking out negative thoughts from others and things around you is what is going help you grow and stay confident and consistent in what you want to master in life. One of the ways to block out negative thoughts is to not read or listen to anything that’s going to bring negative vibes into your life such as songs with negative messages, the negative news, or being around those who are always unhappy and are complaining 24 hours a day. The things that you wanna have that will give you a positive outlook is being around those who have a positive attitude and they also have dreams and some of them may also have the same dreams as you and you can also learn from them as well.

Negative thoughts are what holds us down and prevent us from having the greatness that we know that we can have but if we block out those negative thoughts we can have the success that we want and it also takes work to get there. To block out that negative vibe you gotta have a strong shield that no negative vibes can break through and the way to build that strong shield is by staying positive and never giving up. If your thoughts are negative that shield is gonna become weak and negative vibes are going get through but if you stay positive your shield is protected.

When I get up every day I always start it with a positive outlook and I block out all negativity because being negative gets you no place and I don’t have time for it. every morning when I get out of bed it starts with a meditation by either listening to a guided audio or just simply sitting on the front of the bed with my eyes closed and thinking great thoughts and I think about the great things that I wanna do in my life and also am thankful for family, friends and another day. Even if I come across those who are negative I don’t let that rub off on me I just brush it away from me.

You have two choices when it comes to this, you can either be down and out with negative thoughts or you can rise above and have thoughts that are so positive nothing negative can take them away from you. When you are blocking out negative thoughts or any kind, you are proving that you are setting a great example for yourself and others.

Looking Presentable In Videos





When it comes to being on camera, looking presentable in videos is a very important key if you want to have a good reputation for yourself. This is very important if you are starting a home based business or any kind of business for that matter and you want to get people around the world to know you and this is where you need to look and be 100 percent professional because if you are sloppy and talk in circles, no one is going to watch your videos you made.You can  be starting out at this or be a pro, but if you wanna keep your viewers you gotta be presentable.

Looking presentable in videos takes work and you need to be fully consistent when doing so.  The first step that you wanna take is making sure that you have clean clothes on such as a nice shirt that’s free of stains and also having a clean shaved appearance or trimmed beard and mustache is also required.  Make sure that there is no food on your face and your teeth are brushed because nobody wants to see food on your face or see your teeth full of food. Also make sure that your hair is neatly brushed and clean because no body wants to see dirty and ragged hair. Make sure that before you start your video you have enough light in your room and be prepared about what your video is about.

When you start your video first introduce yourself and speak very clearly and this is something that i have been told many times before because I have a habit of talking to fast or slur my words. When you are just making a video and make an error you can always restart but if you are doing a live video steam that will be hard to do since you are doing a live broadcast. Speaking clear and being presentable in videos is one of the ways that you will keep and also grow your audience. There are many people out there that have millions of viewers and are making money as well.

Posture is also important when making videos and make sure that you have the camera at the right angle. You don’t wanna have the camera too close or too far away and make sure that there are no background noises that will distract you. If you make videos on the go presentation is also key because you are live pout in public and on camera. If you are new at making videos you can also watch other peoples videos online and learn from those who have done videos online for a long time or you can learn from others that you know and learn how to develop the good habits that they have when making videos. You may make a few mistakes here and there but as soon as you know it and are presentable in your videos you will soon become a pro. When you are presentable in videos it show greatness.


Don’t Be Afraid To take Chances



There may be somethings in life that you wanna do but have a fear of what may happen but no matter what don’t be afraid to take chances. If you don’t take chances, you will never know what you are going to miss out and the things that you miss out on can be the greatest experiences that you can enjoy in life. Taking Chances and doing the things that you wanna do can open you up to many new exciting things and you never know what you can do.

The only way that you fail, is if you don’t take chances in life but if you take that great chance you will have greatness ahead of you and even if things don’t go the way you want to the first time, just keep on taking those chances. When you are afraid to take those chances you are staying in your comfort zone so to break out of that comfort zone don’t be afarid to take chances. There may be some type of home business that you wanna get into or you wanna start a business of your own but, if you let fear block you, you are not going to take that chance to make your dreams come true. Let’s also say that you wanna learn to skydive or go ziplining but have a fear of heights well, you can either live in fear and hold yourself back or you can overcome that fear and take that chance being that fearless champion.

There are many people who are taking chances of each and every single day to better themselves because they simply want to grow and enjoy everyday life experiences. Also even if things don’t turn out a million times for them they keep on taking those chances because they know that if they keep on taking chances they will get to where they wanna be and taking every chance that they took is going to be well worth it. There are also many famous people from singers to having a business who took a lot of chances, had a lot of setbacks but still took that chance and a day came where they all made it and became successful. Some may have laughed and them and put them down but they were still determined to take those chances and they all came out as true winners because they believed in greatness.

Although it may seem scary at first, taking chances can be a great thing and can open up your eyes to many great experiences.  Taking  Chances shows that you are not gonna be held back and are willing to do whatever it takes to get to where you want to be at now and years down the road.  I have also taken a few chances here and there such as cooking certain foods and although I made many errors I still kept on taking chances because I want to learn and grow. So, no matter what happens be strong, stick to your guns and don’t ever be afraid to take chances in life.